2021 12 29 Larry-the nut does not fall too far from the tree

 In about 1958 Dad and Mom built a new house on Beaver Creek, one mile north and 3 west or 1 mile east of Vea and Eddy Harris.  I was 6 years old and big for my age (always was until folks caught up with me at about 13 or 14 years old).  Larry and Debbie were in the Grainola Grade School, and I was home helping dad build that house.  I should tell you that after we built the new house, which was about 2 feet from the old house, Mrs. Heath (postmaster) purchased the house and moved it to Grainola and the front porch was finished out to be the new post office.  Mrs. Heath (Jimmy's grandmother) lived in the house and worked in the new refurbished porch.  Anyway, I was in charge of doing anything dad needed, like getting nails or a board, just whatever.  I did not know it at the time, but dad was teaching me a set of skills that would last a lifetime.  I learned what a 16-penny nail and every variation of that plus the difference in hammers and crow bars or nail bars, different types of saws, etc.  But here is where Larry comes into the picture.

Larry and I had a room we shared in the new house on the Northwest corner with a giant elm tree right outside the window where we built a huge tree house (Larry and I built it, not dad).  Dad built a desk in 1958 for our room and if you look in the attached picture, lower left, you will see that same desk.  Larry has taken it to OSU, U of Nebraska where he received his masters and doctorate, U of Wisconsin where he did his thesis and then to Clemson University/Edisto by Barnwell, SC where he basically built a bull and cattle research operation 41 years ago.  That makes this desk 63 years old and still being used.  He has added a few more screws and nails to keep it working.  The drawers still work like a charm.  You might notice that his fishing tackle is extremely well organized.  Well, I have to tell you that when we were little, he was extremely well organized.  In fact, I would suggest that is why he was so successful at keeping records on cattle and working with a team of folks at Edisto to build a well-known bovine research facility.  I guess I am just proud of him and the life he has lived.  One of the funny and interesting things about Larry is he can tell you precisely how many bass he has caught each year going back to at least 1983.  This year he has 1029 bass, and he records each one and what they were caught on and what the weather was plus of course the location.  When I say location, I mean down to where at on the pond or lake.

Forgot one thing, Mom was an extremely well-organized person as well and very thrifty.  Therefore, Larry did not fall far from the tree.

So, what do you learn about Larry and the Osage?

• If you build it right, it will last a lifetime
• The value is not in the desk, but the memories made 
• Organization can make you successful in a career and life and of course fishing

Thanks for listening,

gary

gary@mylifelegacy.co

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 2021 12 20 -- Larry worked with Becky Davis and Mac (her husband the singer, just fyi) for over 30 years.  Becky laughs and tells about Larry’s idiosyncrasies.  For example:  Larry liked to talk in third person, “Larry does not do oil and gas powered”.  That means he got rid of his boat with a gas and oil engine and he does not mow lawns.  On the other hand when getting ready for a production sale (that is when they sell bulls and cows at Edisto) and things needed “neated” (not really a word but you get it), he would get out the weed eater and mower and get after it.  Mac or Bob I think told him he could ask for help but Larry just was about getting things done.  In fact his allergies were terrible but he would do the work anyway.  Another thing Becky shared was Larry did not spend time telling folks good morning or the likes but rather would have a list of things to go over and get done each day.  In fact each year they would wean the calves on labor day (that means take the babies away from their mommas) and it made for a very long day.  Becky enlightened Larry that most folks either take labor day off or at least take it a little easier.  She suggested that they could do it over a couple days and not make it so miserable of a day.  Larry, in his normal way, responded with a shrug and “OK” and things were changed permanently.  You see Larry believed in doing things the same way every time so there are no mistakes and everyone knows what to expect, especially him.

Larry was funny in this way but if you take a peek at his boat (or boats, but that is another story) you would understand things get done very systematically.  Now that I think about it when he was a kid and we roomed together (yes, small house with 3 bedrooms and Debbie got hers and Larry and I shared one) he was the same way.  I remember when he decided to practice being a pitcher for baseball.  He literally wore out his shoe dragging it during pitches.  So, he got a metal toe protector for his shoe.  I do not believe anyone ever practiced or worked as hard as Larry to get perfection.  In fact, I watched the only baseball game (another story) he every got to pitch and it was a NO HITTER.  Pretty good, huh?

So what do you learn from your brother, in the Osage?

·       Perfection can sometimes blind us from a better process

·       Humility is wonderful when it is sincere

·       Practice makes perfect

·       Larry is a ‘life worth living’ and I love him for it

Thanks for listening,

gary@mylifelegacy.co

please email me any stories you have about my brother and I may/might use them on the blog or in a book.

 

 

Mac and Becky Davis, Bob Webb, me, John Mueller

With a little memory help I am going to write stories on my brother, Dr. Larry Olson, not just from memory but his friends and other family memories.  So one of the things I want to ask of YOU is to please send me stories you remember about my brother.  They only have to be your perspective and at least 80% true.  Send those to gary@mylifelegacy.co and I may or may not add them to the blog and hopefully a book.  So here goes.

Dr. John Mueller of Edisto (don’t say Adesto or Bob Webb will know you are not from around here) use to fish with Larry and of course they worked at Edisto Research and Education Center near Barnwell, SC.  He said when Larry was shopping for fishing equipment and in particular lures, when Larry found what he wanted he would reach all the way to the back of the display and take ALL of those available.  In fact I can tell you from personal experience that if there is a supply chain problem (2020 and 2021) Bass Pro Shops only needs to call Larry to resupply their inventory.  He has thousands of lures and plastic worms and Bubblegum SuperFlukes all displayed in one of his rooms.  I also should say he has thousands more in well organized and labeled clear plastic boxes.  As a side note every Christmas, he gave all the nieces and nephews and especially the girls fishing lures.  In fact he gave the bright pink Bubblegum SuperFlukes  to the girls.  Now in case you don’t know it each packet contains at least 10 or up to 20.  I don’t know about you but why would a 6 month old, 1, 2, and 3 year old need all those Bubblegum SuperFluckes?  Strangely enough, the girls loved them and played with them.  We found them everywhere, but apparently they are good for bass fishing.  Did I mention that Larry has 6 bass mounted on his dining room wall that are between 11.5 Lbs. and 12.5 Lbs.?

Well, as you know I like to end with a little wisdom and have added a money saving tip so:

What do you learn in the Osage?

·       Bubblegum Supperflukes are not just for fishing

·       A gift from the heart is more important than what it cost

·       It is the memories that we create that are the real value in life

Thanks for listening,

gary@mylifelegacy.co

What is your story?

Save a few bucks: Get married because two can live cheaper than one as long as one does not eat and one goes naked.  Sorry, that was just too much fun.  Here goes a real one: Instead of having expensive letterhead, get a good quality printer (I use an HP Office Jet 6300, about $150), nice quality paper (be careful when ordering but I ordered online from Office Depot and saved a bunch by purchasing a case, Note:  some companies don’t include the same number of sheets in a case or order), then develop what you want your stationary to look like.   It is easier and dramatically cheaper.

A Wet Wooly and save a few bucks

Larry Olson and Kenny Kelsey                  Sally and Beth Shumate

Now you may not know what I am talking about when I say I first learned about a wet wooly, but I am going to tell you.  At our house in Grainola there were many times that the Snyders (Gladys, Billy and Suzie) and/or the Shumates (Mrs., Janie, and Sally) would visit us, 1 mile North and 3 West down on Beaver Creek.  That of course is from downtown Grainola.  

One evening the Shumate family was at our house and Larry and Sally and myself were sitting on our very old brown couch (it never wore out).  I think Larry and Sally were both in college at the time and they had learned some new antics.  Anyway, Sally was sitting between the two of us and Sally (at least I think it was her) stuck her finger in her mouth and got it nice and wet, then she stuck it in my ear.  I thought it was Larry, so I put my hand behind Sally and pushed her forward.  Then I took my fist and let Larry have it on his shoulder.  I forgot to mention that the wet finer being put in my ear is a WET WOOLY.  Well, I hit him so hard he rolled over the arm of the couch and fell on the floor yelling.  I did not feel bad one bit for that and even if Sally did it, they were both guilty as they were laughing and a little too proud for their trickery.

Next week, December 21st, 2021, Shouna and I will be married 25 happy years.  Not bad 25 out of 47, that was a joke.  Anyway, I tried a wet wooly on my wife early on in our marriage and it just did not go over too well.  I thought it was pretty funny, but not her.

So, what do you learn from your big brother or what do you learn in the Osage?

• A wet wooly is not a good idea in making your wife happy
• Orneriness behavior has its roots in the Osage
• Older brothers can be a pain in the ear
• Memories are good for the heart

Thanks for listening,

gary

gary@mylifelegacy.co

How to save a few bucks:  call your friends and learn to play cards, like 10-point pitch or spades.  It can save you a lot of money rather than going out to eat and you will create better friends and memories.

You don't know what you think you know

Well, I am here in South Carolina with my brother Larry who is in the hospital.  You might not be like me, but I bet you are.  

I think of Larry, my brother, as a recluse and not particularly well-known or has any close friends but a great fisherman and OCD about fishing and cattle.  Larry has been in the hospital or rehab hospital since November 1st, 2021, and today is December 14th, 2021.  What I have learned is that he is not a recluse, has a huge list of close friends that love and admire him and that he has been very successful on a national basis in the cattle business.  WOW!  To me, he was just my big brother, and I was proud of the fact he had a PHD and was called Doctor Olson.  I was also pleased to find out he believes in God and knows Jesus.  I am blessed by the time I have been spending with him and what I have learned.

What I remember about him was he loved to quail hunt and he and I would hunt for hours and hours without a dog and of course he was a great shooter.  He also was a great fisherman, and we would fish for hours and hours when we could get away from farm and ranch work.  We would seine for minnows or dig worms or get some liver out of the freezer (for catfishing) and head for the creek behind the house (Beaver Creek).  I should comment that since dad did not like liver it was free game to use it for fish bait.  Mom liked it but no one else did at our house, but that is another story.

What is interesting to me is that all that OCD stuff and love of fishing and cattle has not stopped.  Just in case you don't know what OCD is:  it is a passion for being orderly and very detailed.  His house is the most organized place in America.  Every cabinet and every room and every file are well documented and labeled and organized.  Even his shirts are not just organized but evenly spaced and placed on hangers that are color coded for how they are washed and ironed.  Yes, he does iron his own clothes.  When he was in college he would not let mom iron his shirts as he was very picky then as well.  His socks and underwear are folded and organized in the drawers.  There is no clutter, not even under the bathroom sinks.

OK, back to his friends and South Carolina.  The outpouring of love and admiration for Larry was shocking as I had no idea.  Kevin Yon shared that Larry has done more for ranches across America than about anyone he knows.  Becky Davis worked with Larry for 30+ years at Edisto/Clemson and she talks fondly of Larry and what a good boss he was.  She shared how he always had a list of things to do even when she and her husband Mac ran into him in a Cincinatti airport.  They called out to him and instead of saying hello, Larry talked about what they needed to do when they got back to home.  Very focused!  Phil Perry and David Gasda and Melissa McCleod all shared what a good friend he was and how helpful he was to them and their family.  They may have been blessed, but I was enormously blessed.

So, what does this teach me?  What do you learn in the Osage?

• Write down the stories of your family, NOW
• What you think you know is not the real story
• Remember the best of a person, forget the bad, it only hurts you

If you are mad or upset with someone, you might want to find out what they are thinking because it is probably only half the story, your half.

Thanks for listening, 

gary@mylifelegacy.co

if you need to talk:  405-410-2918 or text

Stealing Apples, Who done it?

 I could say that this is a way to save money or that boys will be boys or you can just call it stealing.  Anyway, Hugh Allen Jones (commonly known as Heard or Herd or one of the Grainola 5 sometimes 6) use to chase the apple truck that stopped by the school each year and grab an apple or two.  I was too slow to ever catch anything much less the apple truck so don't think I was a good boy because I wanted to chase that truck or more importantly steal me an apple.  Honestly I don't know that the apple man ever knew what was happening or just ignored it but it sure got my adrenalin going as Hugh would generally share his take with us.  

Now I would call this the good old days because if you got caught, most likely you would just get a whoopin (that is country code for spanking) and probably have to pay for the apple.  As I remember it was 5 cents for the apple if you bought one.  The good thing about Hugh Allen is he always had the guts to challenge the standard.  Basically I was a chicken about those kind of things.  

Now I know I told about the time I stole one of those pressure valves to air up a basketball from the local Otasco store.  I sure did feel guilty about that.  Joe Curnutt owned the store and he raised two kids who turned out pretty good, Buddy and Shirley.  Knowing Joe, he probably would have given it to me as I did not have the money and I think it was a dime.  

What this reminds me of is over the years I have not stolen anything I remember but I sure know I have some regrets.  I don't regret my failures as much as I do regret some of those stupid things I have said.  If you don't know it, when you say something you cannot ever take it back.  I remember one time I made a comment about an SUV to someone who had just bought one.  I told them I would never buy one and that they (the suv) were very ugly.  I have since lost count but I have purchased several.  My worst "stuck my foot in my mouth" event came (and still comes out on occasion) was when I said something bad about a person.  Man, I wish I could take those words back.

Well, I guess I should wrap this up.  So what do you learn in the Osage?

• that sticks and stones poem is one of the biggest lies ever told
• no matter what you think, we need to keep a filter on our mouths 
• don't say something you will regret
• If you are going to steel an apple, don't get one with a worm in it

Thanks for listening,

gary

gary@mylifelegacy.co

Does everyone get to have an accident in a vehicle?

 I don't know about you but I almost don't want to talk about an accident as that might be admitting that one is coming.  That reminds me of the story about motorcycle riders, either you have been in a wreck or are going to be in one.  Are there any exceptions out there?  Let me know.

Ok, so here is my first accident:  My red Chevy was sitting in front of the Dixie Dog in Shidler, Oklahoma and someone crushed my door.  Luckily I was not in the car and because I lived where folks are honest and have integrity, someone came and admitted they had run into my car.  What would you do?  My second wreck was in Kentucky where I was selling books door to door, thanks to Harold Codding.  You see I heard that Harold made over $6000 in one summer selling books and I knew that if Harold could do it, I could.  So I called him up and said I wanted to try it.  Now I should also tell you about Harold and how he took home a check for over $6000 from that summer job.  Harold is and always was the All American Boy whom every mother wanted their daughter to marry.  He was kind, thoughtful and good looking and very athletic.  So during that summer he went to a local church and asked if there was anyone who would like to rent a room for the summer.  This sweet old lady charged him $10 per week and fixed him breakfast and dinner.  She fell for his sweet personality like every girl in school.  Lucky guy!!!  No wonder he came home with so much money.

Back to the story:  I was driving in my Pontiac Lemans (big mistake in that I sold that 1963 red Chevy for $300 and bought the 1968 Pontiac, can you imagine what that Chevy would be worth today?) and this county truck was moving very slow and no blinkers were used.  So I passed him and just as I did he turned left and caught my back bumper sending me sailing into the ditch which was more than a ditch because I was on the side of one of those smokie mountains and the ditch was very deep.  Luckily it was about the end of the summer and I was delivering books to those who ordered them.  Did I mention I was in Corbin, Kentucky and Colonel Sanders lived there and I got to meet him right by where I was living?  My car was totaled and I was not hurt except for my feelings and pride.  The car was laying on its side in the ditch and I crawled out and there were lots of folks trying to help me out.  It was a huge crowd.  I cannot tell you how many times that day I heard, "it's the bible salesman, is he OK?".  God had a plan for me that day.  One of the folks that saw my problem told me to come by their house and they would loan me a car to finish out the summer (about 2 weeks).  Well, I went to their house and sitting in their driveway was an old late model Chevy.  I assumed that was the one but you will not believe what happened.  They let me borrow a brand new red Chevy Impala with less than 300 miles on it.  On top of that they bought another $80 worth of books and many of their family members purchased as well.  There are great people out there, you just need to get to know them.

There is a lot more to this story but it was one of those wonderful experiences that taught me a lot.

So what do you learn in the Osage?

• There are good people everywhere
• Do unto others as you want to be treated?
• Give and give until you can give no more, then gives some more and you will be blessed more than you can every imagine.

Thanks for listening,

gary

gary@mylifelegacy.co

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Out house or in house - save money and save the environment

 I was just sitting here thinking about how to save a few bucks and remembered when many folks had out-houses.  It seems to me that we could lower green houses gases and save the earth if we went back to out-houses.  You see if we stopped flushing those toilets so many times each day and stopped using the sewage system in the big cities we would save water and electricity and time.  Plus if we stopped using toilet paper and started using old catalogue's (it use to be the Sear's and Roebuck) or newspapers and junk mail we could save a lot of energy.  And don't forget all those fans we have in the bathrooms which we would not need.  In fact if we stopped having all those light fixtures which cost a lot to make and just had a single light bulb, even an inefficient one, hanging from the ceiling we would save a lot of electricity.  Let's don't forget the toilet which you have to flush multiple times now because the government wanted more efficient toilets, NOT!

Now this brings me to a few more money saving tips.  You know all those LED bulbs the government makes us buy which are supposed to last 7 to 25 years and in real life last only one or two years if you are lucky,  if we count all the manufacturing cost plus the land fill costs they probably don't save us a dime.  Now don't get me wrong, I kind of like the LED bulbs but I am tired of replacing bulbs that do not meet the 7 year warranty.  And besides, who has the time and energy to save the sales receipts for those bulbs and then spend the time and money chasing getting the warranty coverage.  

Now this brings me to another money saving thought.  I just read that each time that battery driven vehicle needs charged it actually costs around $12.  No one seems to be talking about that aspect plus what about wear and tare on the roads and the fact no taxes are recovered to pay for their share of the road repair.  One big problem I see is what happens if we have a giant infrastructure shut down due to ice and cold.  I guess that could never happen, ha ha.  Visualize this, all cars and trucks and cell phones and computers and houses are shut down because there is no electricity.  I was just talking to my brother in law who works on wind turbines and he was telling me how they were damaged and shut down due to the ice and snow.  So I have one question, wouldn't it be better to have a hybrid vehicle like the Prius which generates electricity and runs on gas making over 50 miles to a gallon?  I am just a country boy but that makes a lot of common sense to me.

So what do you learn in the Osage?

• One man's trash is another man's treasure - think about it
• Common sense goes a long way
• Finally, I figured out what to do with all that junk mail.  Does anyone need a wipe?

Thanks for listening,

gary

gary@mylifelegacy.co

 

How is cleaning erasers and investing similar?

I don't know why or how Beth Shumate (my 3,4 and 5th grade teacher) did it but she taught us how to clean the erasers and enjoy it.  In fact it felt like a victory to get chosen to clean the erasers.  For those of you who don't know, that meant getting the chalk dust out of the eraser and the way to do that was to pound them on the sidewalk outside the building.  Dust would fly everywhere and your clothes and hands and arms were covered with white dust when you were done.  It was particularly a high honor if you got to clean the extra long one with the bull hide on one side.  That eraser was about 12 inches long.  Another fun aspect of it was you could make designs in chalk all over the sidewalk and you could not get in trouble for enjoying the labor of it.  

So how is cleaning the erasers similar to investing?  There are actually a lot of similar characteristics.  Number one, you really need to enjoy it.  Second, you need to be focused and get it done.  Third, your investments are just like those erasers, they need cleaned and adjusted sometimes.  Right now the market is going down or I should say more down than up for the last week.  Again, kind of like cleaning the erasers, you have to go up and down to get the job done.  

From the market perspective when the market is down is the best time to buy.  This is the same as when there is a sale at Penny's, it is time to buy.  Have you ever heard of buy low and sell high?  That is the right formula.  What is strange to me and probably because I have been in the investment business for so many years, is that most folks seem to want to sell when the market is working its way down.  Personally, when I see a drop in the market I work really hard to be a buyer.  And yes, I have bought a lot of stocks all the way down.  Now I do not buy a company that is going down when everything else is going up or visa versa.  This is called "dollar cost averaging"  and you can look it up on the internet.  I also want you to know I am not recommending you do what I do but I do recommend you getting a good financial advisor and if you don't have one or don't know if yours is a good one, give me a call or email and I will give you some ideas on how to figure that out.  I can also recommend a few advisors to call.

Last but not least here is a testimonial I received today:  A young lady, defined as under 60 years old, sold a property and had a large amount of money to invest.  Her financial advisor (one of the ones I would recommend you to) suggested that she NOT dump all of her money into the market at one time but rather buy on the dips (like on sale at J. C. Penny's) and do it over several months.  What she and her advisor were doing is dollar cost averaging.  Also the advisor did NOT put her in individual stocks but an ETF (look it up, exchange traded fund).  

Thanks for listening,

gary

gary@mylifelegacy.co

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Don't wait for an apology

I heard a person say "the desire for an apology can be bondage".  I think growing up in the Osage there was not time to hold a grudge or spend time figuring out what everyone was thinking.  At least I never did but I was never the smartest bowling ball in the closet.  I remember dad saying one time how aggravated he was when he helped a person in Grainola build a barn and they never even said thanks.  Dad actually helped the guy for free.  Not sure why.  Anyway what I loved and respected about dad was that he just went on.  He was never rude to the person and in fact they were pretty good friends but dad never volunteered to help that person again that I know of anyway.  Dad was never bitter or held a grudge although I never forgot about the matter to this very day.  But dad, Clifford Olson, taught me a lot those few days and he never brought it up again.  

So what do you learn in the Osage?

• A grudge is not worth the mental stress
• A simple thank you goes a long way 
• The real reward for helping someone even when they do not show appreciation is the satisfaction you helped someone who needed help
• Sometimes when folks don't reach our expectations we have to remember that they may have circumstances that are overpowering them at the time.  
• Forgive and get on with life, I think that is what Jesus did

Thanks for listening,

gary 

gary@mylifelegacy.co

 

Credit cards and Mom and Dad's first use of one plus a little advice

 

My life legacy article 02 30 2021

How to pick a credit card provider?

As you know I always like to relate a story to the subject.  When I was in dear old Shidler High School mom and dad (Cliff and Opal Olson) and I went visiting Southwestern State in Weatherford, OK as I was offered a few scholarships to go there.  I have to admit at the time I had a girlfriend who was planning on going there as well so I guess I had mixed emotions.  Do you know what mixed emotions are?  That is when your mother-in-law drives over a cliff in your new Cadillac, just kidding.  And just to make it clear, my mother-in-law is about as good as you could ever get.  Unlike my mom, she lets me taste the cookie dough before it is cooked.  Back to the trip.  For whatever reason mom decided to use a credit card to purchase gasoline.  This was totally new to me and I don’t believe mom or dad had ever used one.  The real surprise came a week later when the gas station tracked mom down and told her the card was no good.  You see Mom and Dad had never used it, so it had expired.  Man, was I embarrassed, well not really.  By the way, I dumped her, the girlfriend, and found a real keeper from El Reno, OK and we have been married 46 years.

Credit cards:  The good, the bad and the ugly – sounds like a movie.

1.     Not that I need to tell you, but the facts are when you use a credit card to shop you will spend 63% more than if you only have cash.

2.     You should almost never pay an annual fee for a credit card.  In fact if you are a decent client just call the company and they will reduce the fee or waive it.  They want your business as they make a lot of money on those transactions.  Sometimes up to 5% but generally around 2 to 3% depending on the type of card.

3.     If you use a credit card the merchant is building those costs into the product.  Generally, credit card companies prevent the merchant from charging extra for using a credit card.

4.     If you have a company and take credit cards you might want to call me as I use to have a company that processed credit cards and I know for a fact where you can get the lowest rate almost every time.  Just email me and I will give you the name and number, gary@mylifelegacy.co

5.     If you don’t pay them off every month, you are digging a hole that is not easy to get out of so cut them up and toss but don’t cancel unless there is an annual fee as it will hurt your credit score.

6.     Don’t ever be a guarantor on someone’s credit card as you could get stuck with their credit problems and debt.  I see it all the time.

7.     Don’t ever put someone else as a user on your card as you will be responsible for their actions.  I know there are exceptions like your spouse but be careful.

8.     If you are on a card with someone and they pass away, be careful about notifying the credit card companies as they will immediately freeze the account.  I had a friend that did this, and it took almost two weeks to get another card and she had to reapply.  She was in the middle of grief at the time and had no way to pay for gasoline or other things she had previously used credit cards.

 

Which card do you want?  Well, it is like farming, it depends on what you want to get out of it.

·       Discover – No annual fee and provides 5% cash back on up to $1,500 combined from Amazon.com, Target.com and Walmart.com or at least they did for the last part of 2020.  They paid 1% on all else and I am confident they are still paying the 1% but not so sure about the 5%.  They change bonus categories by quarter for the 5%.

·       Chase Saphire preferred - $95 annual fee but they give you a bonus of points based on spending $4,000 the first 3 months. 

·       Bank of America gives a $200 bonus for spending $1,000 the first 90 days.

·       Verizon visa has no annual fee and gives 4% on groceries 3% on gas and 1% on other but it may change and they credit it against your Verizon mobile if you want.  They also give you about $4.31 credit on your bill for charging to the credit card plus if you allow auto pay they give you another $10 discount.  It all adds up but it has to work for you.

·       Capital One Walmart Rewards Mastercard gives 5% on Walmart .com and 2% on Walmart stores but for the first 12 months you get 4% for in store as well.  In my mind that is pretty good since it seems that most of our dollars go to Walmart and keep in mind that after the 12 months you can find another card.  Be careful about closing a card before you get another as it can knock down your credit score.  Speaking of that we have 4 videos on how to manage your credit score and how to NOT use a credit repair company by being a member of My Life Legacy.

·       Amazon rewards Visa offers 3% cash back on Amazon purchases and 5% if you are a Prime member.  It seems that everyone is a Prime member these days.  And speaking of that you get a ton of movies included plus the free shipping.  We sure get our monies worth on this one each year.  I do hate annual fees for Prime.

·       Mastercard with American Airlines - $125 annual fee and you get travel points.  I figure that if I don’t charge enough to get at least one airline ticket per year it is a waste and especially during COVID.  I did call them and they waived the annual fee.

·       Home Depot – no discount and no cost

·       Best Buy – 5% discount at Best Buy only

·       Lowes – my favorite place to shop – I get 5% off on everything and I auto pay so it is a no brainer for me.  It does not work anywhere else, only at Lowe’s.

·       American Express – I still don’t get it as I get basically nothing for it and it is not taken all places. 

·       Cabela’s Mastercard – well if you like the outdoors and buy lots of stuff there, you get special offers and discounts.  It is issued by Capital One. 

 

I have to admit I like my Cabela’s card but with all these offers I am pretty much sticking to Verizon Visa this year and my American Airlines Mastercard.  I like to see the discounts.   

WARNING:  credit cards can be the downfall of your credit score and that short term fix of purchasing something will not satisfy.  I cannot help myself but about the only thing that satisfies for the long term is knowing Christ in a personal way.  In fact, I just like stories like Hallmark where you can predict the ending and with Christ, I already know He wins in the end.

Well, I am about talked out but hope this helps.  Check out mylifelegacy.co and we have an OPEN MIC LIVE opportunity where we cover a short topic each week and then open up for questions. If we don’t have the answers, we will get you one or find someone to assist you.  And if you really want to join and send me an email, I will give you a special price just for the folks reading these articles in the Shidler paper.

I love the Osage and Thanks for listening,

Gary

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Is life a goal or an objective or a passion or a journey?

Is life a goal or an objective or a passion or a journey? 

 Looking back to the Osage and where my first business venture took place, selling terrapins (you need to search the blog to know that story) will lead you to the story in this picture. 

 I should mention that every picture tells at least one story and this one tells a lot of stories. (2003 Shouna and Anne Beiler, Auntie Anne's Pretzels) For about 7 years we owned and operated the Auntie Anne's Pretzel stores in Oklahoma (8). The picture is of Shouna (my wife) and Anne Bieler, the founder of Auntie Anne's. It was a fun and trying experience and we learned a lot about business and ourselves. I learned to make a pretzel in mid-air and on a pretzel table. I learned that having 8 stores all over the state plus a full time job in the finance industry can put a little stress on the family and friends. The great thing is we traveled together, worked together expanded our relationships and our journey in life. Our children saw that we knew how to work and what it takes to be successful in business and most importantly in life and marriage. 

 What you don't see in this picture that I can see is a wife dedicated to her husband and his ideas and dreams and hopes. You do see the excitement in the faces of two ladies getting to know each other while on a mission to build a life. This is also a picture of a few of the threads of life that become part of the fabric which becomes in our case 46 years of marriage (December 21, 2021). So what I am saying is this is one picture that tells a piece of the story of our life.

Our journey is not complete but it has its twists and turns everyday and we embrace them in that we know God's plan is not our plan. I choose to believe this is a journey and I have passions of what I like and enjoy doing especially with my wife.

 

 So what do you learn in the Osage?

• Our experiences give our journey and our story color that we embrace, even if it is sometimes trying
• We can focus on the bad times or the good times but it is your/my choice
• If you are perfect then you do not have to forgive me for my faults
• My focus is not on what my feelings are but on the journey that Christ gives me

Thanks for listening,

gary

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I need your help writing a book

 

I am writing a book on, “1000 ways to save a few bucks”, the title may change but you get the idea.

 If you choose to participate you may be quoted and I might ask you to participate in a video/blog.  Of course you don’t have to.  The only compensation you will get is “thanks for helping” although if you help I will give you a special discount on the book and a discounted membership to My Life Legacy, mylifelegacy.co

 So here you go:

 Tell me at least one way to save money:  i.e. you bought an antenna for your TV and cut off your cable and it saved you $85 per month but the downside was I did lose the ability to record.

 If you are wondering why I am doing this there are a couple of reasons:

• I am retired but now I am spending a lot of time assisting folks who need help with budgeting and financial management.
• In particular I am working with single moms
• And I am a Preferred Dave Ramsey coach and I work with a lot of folks through that connection
• In My Life Legacy we help folks answer the question, “if something happens to you, will your spouse or family know what to do?”  and second, My Life Legacy assists folks in writing their legacy to reflect their life experiences so that it can be shared electronically or in a book for your family.

 So if you have any questions, feel free to ask me.  And above all else tell me how to save a few bucks!  I would really like to get this done quickly so please respond in the next few days or weeks and most of all respond.  Also you might let me know if I have your contact information is correct so that I may update your information.

 Feel free to share this and send your responses to gary@mylifelegacy.co  

Thanks,

Gary

 Gary L. Olson

Legacy Coach 

 

Cell: (405) 410-2918

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Hooligans - Momma told me not to grow up and become a hooligan

Now I don't know about you but when mom told me not to be a hooligan I knew it was something important and I did not even know what a hooligan was. Surely you were like me and you sensed that it was something bad the first time you heard the word. Isn't it funny how you knew you could know something was good or bad depending on mom or dad's tone of voice.  If I heard dad say "shit", I knew it was not the time to ask a question or disturb his thinking.  And back to hooligan, I never have looked it up but I assumed whatever it was had to be as bad as a bank robber or thief or other horrible person.  I wonder if I have ever met one?  

Thinking back I guess when David or Bob Harris or Eddie Harris or Jay Olsen or I turned over Raymond Dale's outhouse during the Halloween festivities we could have been called hooligans.  Or maybe it was the time that Eddie Harris and I shot up the signs on the McConaghy Ranch and got caught that we could have been hooligans.  Come to think of it there were a lot of times hooligans might have applied.  Maybe when Eddie Harris and I went fishing with dynamite or when we dipped all the tools in the barn in Alice Chalmers orange paint or when we killed Eddie's favorite cat (accidentally of course) or when we buried all of our trucks in the garden to see if we could grow more toy trucks.  Maybe it was when Jon Tanny Olsen and I were seeing how fast you could drive a pickup on ice?  Or was it when we shot all the insulators on the high line wire posts?  Or was it when we were hunting coyotes from the road at night?  Could it have been when Denise Logue's dress got ripped during a volley ball game?  Or Cathy Eaton getting a haircut at the 4-H livestock show in Pawhuska with sheep sheers?

You know for a pretty good boy I sure could have been called a hooligan at times I suppose.  Luckily I made it through.  HUMMMM?  Now what is a hooligan?  I don't think I want to look that up.

So what do you learn in the Osage?

• You only live once, so pack in those good old days
• Hooligans are for city kids, cause us country kids were always good
• Thankfully His grace is sufficient and even a hooligan can get to heaven

Thanks for listening,

gary

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The Leader Ship | Episode 19 | Gary Olson -- This is an interview in Dallas a few weeks back.. Hope you enjoy it

Chris Johnson made me look better than expected. So what do you learn in the Osage? A BUNCH!!!!! Thanks for listening, gary You might take a peak at mylifelegacy.co which is our new offering. And if you are interested we are doing OPEN MIC LIVE on Tuesdays right now on credit scores and why they are important and how to manage them. It is a four week course and we are into our second week. This is for Tuesday, January 2nd, 2021 at 6 P.M. Gary L. Olson is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting. Topic: My Life Legacy Open Mic Q&A Time: Feb 2, 2021 06:00 PM Central Time (US and Canada) Every week on Tue, until Dec 28, 2021, 48 occurrence(s) Feb 2, 2021 06:00 PM Feb 9, 2021 06:00 PM Feb 16, 2021 06:00 PM More to be announced: Please download and import the following iCalendar (.ics) files to your calendar system. Weekly: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/tZYsde-hrj8tGdbnDBd3Br8eTuUxjSOCMbEh/ics?icsToken=98tyKuGqrzksE9SRtxqFRpwQBYjoM_PziClajadfkjvHB3NxcFvzAvd3KrhMP_v9 Join Zoom Meeting https://us02web.zoom.us/j/82126904732?pwd=aFhMRnBvWkNXOG1ES29HOWcvZXFxdz09 Meeting ID: 821 2690 4732 Passcode: 249998 One tap mobile +13462487799,,82126904732#,,,,*249998# US (Houston) +16699009128,,82126904732#,,,,*249998# US (San Jose) Dial by your location +1 346 248 7799 US (Houston) +1 669 900 9128 US (San Jose) +1 253 215 8782 US (Tacoma) +1 312 626 6799 US (Chicago) +1 646 558 8656 US (New York) +1 301 715 8592 US (Washington DC) Meeting ID: 821 2690 4732 Passcode: 249998 Find your local number: https://us02web.zoom.us/u/kbjCmMKIzi

12 03 2020 Shidler paper first article - this one is on credit scores and how to deal with them

Well, here is an article I wrote for the new Shidler paper and if you do not subscribe please do by contacting Megan Golay <projectshidler@gmail.com> .  She is excited about reviving our community and telling our stories.  These stories will focus on issues that effect many if not all of us.  It is a little different format and they will be mixed in with the format from other stories I write as the Pioneer Man, not to be confused with you know who The Pioneer Woman.  She gets 30 million hits per month and I get 30.  Go figure.  I guess I should start cooking. OK, here is my first.

My life legacy article 12 03 2020

I hope this is as fun for you as it is for me.  I am a Shidler High School graduate from 1971 and yes, I am retired but still kicking after 45 years.  I am excited to see that there is a Shidler Newspaper, and it would be my hope that Shidler and of course Grainola and the surrounding towns would thrive.  Well, as many of you know I have been blogging for years about growing up in the Osage due to my love for the tall grass and what I consider the greatest and prettiest place on God’s earth.  (my blog is thepioneerman.blogspot.com) So since this is my first article I want to give you an idea of what I hope to write about. 

My passion is assisting folks to be prepared and to prepare for those financial and personal obstacles in life.  Each article will cover one financial or personal topic that might help you to save money or be prepared for incapacitation or death of a loved one.  So here goes and as always, I have to remember Mrs. Helen Head and how tough she was on me in high school and how her toughness was precisely what I needed to succeed in life.  Of course, there are many others and over time I hope to acknowledge and give credit to those who were examples for me to live by.

•        Our first Topic:  Credit Scores – did you know that your credit score can cost you a lot if it is not protected.  Your home insurance, life insurance, auto insurance, mortgage interest rate, other loan interest rates and even your job or future job can be effected negatively.  What I am saying is you will pay more if you have a bad credit score and you may not get that job you applied for if your score is not at a certain level.  As Dr. Phil said, “ ..a great predictor of future behavior is your past behavior”.   A credit score is one of the elements that banks and insurance companies use to decide if you are a good or bad risk.  Here are a few things you can do to assist in getting a better score:  (1) Pay all bills on time (2) if you mess up contact the company and ask for them to remove the delinquency (3) challenge any bad credit scores – you can do that by going to the credit bureau used – there are 3 – Experian, Equifax, and Trans Union (4) get one free report per year www.annualcreditreport.com and make sure it is correct as there are lots of errors on credit scores.

There is a lot more you should know but this should get you started.  One warning I would give you is be careful of those companies that want to fix your credit scores.  It is my opinion you should not pay one of them and from what I have seen they are not looking out for your best interest but how they can make money.  I assisted a person they coached on how to negotiate with credit card companies and then to file bankruptcy if necessary and what he really needed was just some outside help from a knowledgeable person. 

Thanks for listening,

Gary (I am a Preferred Ramsey Coach and a retired investment advisor and I do not give investment advice, legal advice or CPA advice)

gary@mylifelegacy.co if you have a question

Since 2000, I've helped my clients break through obstacles that held them back from experiencing their best life. Our time is the only resource we cannot replenish.  Life's too short to be unhappy, unsure, or unfulfilled.  This is why we should make great efforts to live each day on purpose, with clear goals and a path to get there. This is my passion, to provide guidance to you by learning and developing plans and processes to navigate towards your life goals.  Get in touch with me today to see what I can do for you.