I know that I did not grow up in the depression, but it certainly made a difference in my life. Mom and dad grew up during those times including the Dust Bowls, Depression, WWI and mostly WWII plus lots of presidents and lots of politics.
Did it make a difference in my life? Certainly, because mom became extremely thrifty, and she worked like a dog every day providing for the family. Dad wanted to own land and raise a family that he could be proud of. They both worked long hours 7 days a week from before daylight to after dark. They both wanted their children (Larry, Debbie and me) to go to college and they taught us hard work, discipline and respect. They gave us values, honor and faith. We virtually never missed church and knowing about the life of Christ.
Let me be specific: We always had a huge garden and literally hundreds of chickens and I would guess over 100 hogs, and milk cows (a dairy for many years) plus beef cattle and even a few sheep. Every year we put up (canned) hundreds of jars of vegetables for the winter. We butchered chickens for meat and harvested eggs for the kitchen plus we traded eggs at Dale's Feed Seed and Fertilizer store for groceries. We separated the whole milk and sold off the cream and then the milk for income. We even made our own butter for years and to tell you the truth, I was glad to see those sticks of butter in the store and then our kitchen. It saved a lot of work. All of this was a reflection of mom's thrifty ways. She made clothes for the entire family, except for the Levi's and even those were patched many times to make them last.
Another reflection of the lasting effects of the depression is that being the youngest, I got to wear the used clothes of Larry, my brother, and Billy Snyder, my first cousin. That is, until I outgrew them and that was about the time I hit 12 or 13. Debbie, my sister, and the Shumate girls all learned to sew and make their own clothes. Mom was a great teacher.
Another thing my parents did, and I believe it was due to the depression, was giving or I could say sharing what we had with others. They gave even when it hurt as they saw others in need more than us. I would say they happily gave, and they never asked the government to take their place in that giving. They did not require something in return, because they understood the law of giving was a gift in itself.
Leftovers were never wasted with the one exception of liver. Dad hated liver, so we got to use it for fish bait, so maybe it was not wasted either. Vehicles were driven for years and were totally repaired and maintained by us. Even the tractors were maintained and never traded for a newer model. We used everything until it could be used no more.
So what do you learn in the Osage?
- A great life is made by the values you learn, the hard way or should I say hard work
- Without a good example of a father and mother, growing up can be very difficult
- Give and give until you can give no more and give some more, you will be richer for it
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