I remember my dad when he would get up from the chair or taking a nap he would appear to be in pain. His response was always, "just wear and tare" then he would take about two steps then he was back to full speed just like "the good old days". He never complained and he never talked bad about folks and he always worked harder and faster than anyone. In fact I remember when he was in his 60's, much less than when he was in his late 80's (that is a figure of speech just in case you can't figure it out), Larry and my brother in law and myself went to work with dad and my brother in law was worried that dad would not be able to keep up. Larry and I knew better. After about four hours the brother in law was what I call "down in the mouth" and complaining about needing a break and dad was just laughing and kept right on going. In fact the brother in law quit working because he was tired long before the rest of us quit for the day. That day he learned that dad could out work anyone, anywhere and anytime. To this day it is still funny as I look back. There are only two people that I think come close to being like dad and that is my two nephews, Cliff Crow of Kingfisher and Richard Crow of Perry and I guess I could throw in my brother Larry. They are all workaholics, not me, although a lot of folks claim I don't know when to quit. Oh ya, my sister Debbie, she is a workaholic as well. She does not know when to quit and is about the most servant orientated person you will ever find. Guess you could say, "the nut does not fall far from the tree".
back to retirement: Yep, I am retired but I have not quit. I am gardening more, reading more, doing financial coaching and some seminars here and there, involved in a few more mission orientated projects like working with folks just getting out of prison, managing some real estate we have owned for a long time, and on a few boards of non-profits and then one private company we own that does trucking. Yes, I did say trucking just to annoy a few folks like Jim Wicker (president and partner in JW Logistics). You see we are not a trucking company but a logistics company which really means we handle trucking. Yep, retirement is not slowing down but trading my time for something else and preferably what I choose. If I were more spiritual, I would say doing more of what He chooses.
Maybe, if I think about it long enough, retirement has not changed much.
So what do you learn in the Osage?
- you can take the boy out of the farm but you cannot take the farm out of the boy
- if I can get up out of bed or off the couch and keep moving then I must still be living the dream
- if God meant for me to sit on my butt in retirement I think He would have had a chapter in the Bible telling me how to waste my time and not invest in other folks. In fact I think He says in His word something about standing before God and Him saying, "well done my good and faithful servant". Ya, that is what I want, how about you?
Well, thanks for listening,
gary
golson21@hotmail.com
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